Bit Of Wisdom

I've learned
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is
be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned
that no matter how much I care, some people just don't
care back
I've learned
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to
destroy it.
I've learned
that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have
in your life that counts.
I've learned
that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After
that, you'd better know something.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the
best others can do, but to the best you can do.
I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's
important. It's what they do about it.
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there
are always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the
person I want to be.
I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to
think.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with
loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think
you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no
matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it
controls you.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a
relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had
better be something else to take its place. (Amen to
that!)
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to
be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the
consequences.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or
nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick
you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back
up.
I've learned that I'm getting more and more like my
grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the
right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to
be cruel.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even
over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you
with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types
of experiences you've had and what you've learned from
them and less to do with how many birthdays you've
celebrated.
I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams
are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more
humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she
believed it
I've learned that your family won't always be there for
you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to
can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust
people again. Families aren't biological.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you
must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by
others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may
have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who
we become.
I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm
forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it
doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because
they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual
ahead of their actions.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we
understand that friends change.
I've learned that if you don't want to forget something,
stick it in your underwear drawer.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a
secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones
with the most holes in them.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same
thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your
children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt
in the process.
I've learned that there are many ways of falling and
staying in love.
I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who
are honest with themselves, get farther in life.
I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind,
the trick is self-control.
I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if
you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the
times you need them most.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of
hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to
give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the
strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease
emotional pains.
I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that
is offered to us.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you
a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can
have many different meaning, it loses value when overly
used.
I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the
line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe.
-Arthur
Unknown

Come
unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you
rest.
Matthew 11:28
Casting all your care upon him; for he cares for you.
1 Peter 5:7
God will
work in your life doing the thing that you know He loves, knowing
that He is also working in the lives of others. God is so good, and so
concerned abut how we feel. Trust Him and see!
JUST
TALK TO HIM. ENJOY YOUR DAY!

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