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Susanna Wesley
Susanna
was born Susanna Annesley was the daughter of Dr. Samuel Annesley and the
mother of John and Charles Wesley. She was born in January 1669 and died
July 23, 1742.
“…although she never preached a sermon or published a book or founded
a church, is known as the Mother of Methodism. Why? Because two of her
sons, John Wesley and Charles Wesley, as children consciously or
unconsciously will, applied the example and teachings and circumstances of
their home life.
Susanna Wesley was the 25th of twenty-five children. Her father, Dr.
Samuel Annesley, was a dissenter of the established church of England. At
the age of 13, Susanna stopped attending her father's church and joined
the official Church of England.
She met Samuel Wesley and was married on November 11, 1688. Samuel was 26
and Susanna was 19.Susanna and Samuel Wesley had nineteen children. Nine of her children died
as infants. Four of the children that died were twins. A maid accidentally
smothered one child. At her death only eight of her children were still
alive.
Personal life
Susanna experienced many hardships throughout her life. Her husband left
her and the children for over a year because of a minor dispute.
To her absent husband, Susannah Wesley wrote:
I am a woman, but I am also the mistress of a large family. And though the
superior charge of the souls contained in it lies upon you, yet in your
long absence I cannot but look upon every soul you leave under my charge
as a talent committed to me under a trust. I am not a man nor a minister,
yet as a mother and a mistress I felt I ought to do more than I had yet
done. I resolved to begin with my own children; in which I observe, the
following method: I take such a proportion of time as I can spare every
night to discourse with each child apart. On Monday I talk with Molly, on
Tuesday with Hetty, Wednesday with Nancy, Thursday with Jacky, Friday with
Patty, Saturday with Charles.
Due to her husband's poor financial abilities he spent time in jail twice.
The lack of money was a continual struggle for her. Their house was burned
down twice; during one of the fires her son John nearly died and had to be
rescued from the second story window. She was the primary source of her
children's education: she set aside special time with each child every
week.
After the second fire Susanna was forced to place her children into
different homes for nearly two years while the rectory was rebuilt. During
this time the Wesley children lived under the rules of the homes they
lived in. Susanna was mortified that her children began to use improper
speech and play more than study.
“Under no circumstances were the children permitted to have any lessons
until they had reached their fifth year, but the day after their fifth
birthday their formal education began. They attended classes for six hours
and on the very first day they were supposed to learn the whole of the
alphabet. All her children except two managed this feat, and these seemed
to Susanna to be very backward.” (Haddal, 1961, pg.14) “The children
got a good education. Daughters included, they all learnt Latin and Greek
and were well tutored in the classical studies that were traditional in
England at that time.” (Haddal, 1961, pg.15)
During a time when her husband was in London, defending a friend against
charges of heresy, he had appointed a locum to bring the message. The
man’s sermons revolved solely around repaying debts. The lack of diverse
spiritual teaching caused Susanna to assemble her children Sunday
afternoon for family services. They would sing a psalm then Susanna would
read a sermon from either her husband's or father's sermon file followed
by another psalm. The local people began to ask if they could attend. At
one point there were over two hundred people who would attend Susanna’s
Sunday afternoon service while the Sunday morning service dwindled to
nearly nothing.
She practiced daily devotions throughout her life, but, shortly before her
death, she wrote to her son Charles, admitting that she had struggled with
doubt throughout her life and only now had finally found peace in her
faith.
Her husband Samuel spent his whole life and all of the family’s finances
on his exegetical work of Job. However, his work was not remembered and
had little impact on his family other than as a hardship. In contrast
Susanna wrote several pieces that would be fundamental in the education of
their children. “In addition to letters, Susanna Wesley wrote
meditations and scriptural commentaries for her own use. She wrote
extended commentaries for instance on the Apostles Creed, the Lord's
Prayer, the Ten Commandments. Alas many of these were lost in the rectory
fire, but many survive. The most accessible means to her writings is
Charles Wallace's excellent and important "Susanna Wesley, Her
Collected Writings.”
Susanna was buried at Bunhill Fields in London.
For
God so loved the world,
that
he gave his only begotten Son,
that
whosoever believeth in him
should
not perish, but have
everlasting life
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