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Lifestyles Often BDSM is used as an 'umbrella' term to cover many different aspects of an alternative lifestyle but this doesn't mean that everyone has to do everything. Like a pervy pic-n-mix, people choose the aspects that appeal to them, and leave the ones that don't. As long as we all remain tolerant of others choices then we can continue to be a BDSM 'family', helping and supporting each other, enjoying our own individuality and appreciating the individuality of each other.
This section has articles on many of the 'aspects' with advice, information plus links to other related sites.
Safety is a vital 'need to know'. We always need to remember SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual).
In the First Times section we look at taking that scary step - going from 'wondering about' to 'finding out'.
D/s - Dominance and submission gives an overview of power exchange.
In the Dominance and Submission sections we look more closely at the individual sides.
Switching can be a lifestyle choice in itself. Here we discuss the definitions of switching and point out some its unique perspectives.
S&M - Sadism & Masochism is another popular aspect of BDSM.
Bondage again needs little introduction but has deeper qualities not always apparent at first.
Discipline is often mistaken for S&M or D/s but while both can include it, it can also be a specialty on its own.
Role Play covers a variety of special interests, from puppy or pony training, to being a maid.
Fetish is often seen as separate from other aspects of BDSM, though it does have a close affinity. It can encompass a wide range of interests, from people who just enjoy wearing fetish style fashions to those who have a passion for particular items/materials.
The Gorean lifestyle is another that's considered by many to be outside the scope of general BDSM.
TV/TG (Transvestites and Trangendered) which can be an aspect of BDSM, but can also stand as a lifestyle choice in its own right.
Gay/Bi's also have their own unique perspectives and approaches.
Cyber or online scening and relationships.
Other Stuff - even with this many categories, there's still some things that just don't fit anywhere else!
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