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Other Stuff This is the second in a series of 'how to' guides, concentrating this
time on exhibitionism of your partner or submissive, rather than of yourself.
The former I know a lot about, the latter nothing at all, so if you want to
know how to do that, you'll need to ask someone else! I'm going to talk about
exhibiting your (female) partner, since that's where my experience is.
If you've never tried anything like this, I should point out that there
are one or two potential problems with it. Firstly, depending on exactly what
you're doing, it may be illegal. My understanding, which you may wish to check
for yourself is that if a man exhibits himself, or flashes at unsuspecting
passers by they are going to be committing a criminal offence and could likely
end up on some sort of charge. If a woman does so, it is unlikely that much
would legally come of it. However, you should be aware that this is, legally
speaking, a dangerous area.
The second point is an ethical one, which
is that if you are involving other people, you are, initially at least, doing
so without their consent and they may be unhappy, disturbed or annoyed at this,
understandably so. There is a very thin line to be drawn therefore, but it is
up to you as to where you draw it; I can't help on that.
Displaying your partners body, or getting her to do it can be a very
potent and arousing activity. Normally, we spend a lot of time clothed, and
letting someone else see your partner is exciting, dangerous and very erotic.
She may well be very unkeen on the idea, so it is best to approach this in slow
stages; it make take several years to progress from one stage to another.
However, you're not involved in a race with anyone else, so don't feel that
you've got to end up getting your partner to walk naked down Oxford Street!
Taking it slowly allows you both to discuss it, and decide to stop at a point
at which you both feel comfortable. So although I'm talking about a series of
stages, do whatever you feel happy with; I'm not advocating what you have to
do, merely some of the things you can do.
I guess the first stage is to
wear normal everyday clothes, but without underwear. If your partner is
particularly busty it may be uncomfortable for her to go without a bra, which
means she's going to want to stop as soon as possible, so you need to be
sensitive to how she feels about this. However, if it is practical, get her to
go out wearing, as I say, her normal clothes. If she wears a shirt or blouse
with buttons, or a short skirt, so much the better. Encourage her to not to
button up all the way; in fact to wear the blouse with one more button undone
than usual. You should be able to get a nice view when she leans over, and you
should both get a thrill out of the fact that you can see rather more of her
than you'd expect to in a public situation!
Choose your location
carefully, since one of the exciting things is that someone might, just might
see a little more than they would do normally. A restaurant is always a good
idea; make sure you drop something onto the floor so you have to lean down and
pick it up, giving you the opportunity to look up her skirt for example.
Alternatively, go somewhere rather quieter and get her to perhaps undo all the
buttons on her shirt. That way if someone happens along, its still going to be
possible for her to cover up quickly, and its unlikely that anyone will notice
anything. Its very interesting in the UK… people see what they expect to
see, and although people probably wouldn't notice her desperate attempts to
hold her shirt together, you don't know for certain, and neither does she.
Some other ideas at this stage in order to get more comfortable with
flashing in an environment in which she still has a lot of control over the
situation:
A clothing store. Get her to change into something else
in a cubical, but leave the curtain just slightly open, so that if someone is
at the right angle, they might be able to see into it, and at her. There are
lots of levels of daringness here; the extent to which the curtain is left
open, if she's wearing underwear, and indeed what she is changing into.
Sunbathing. Lying on her front with the strap of her bikini undone.
She can then sit up, either a little or a lot, depending on who is around and
how brave she feels.
In a train carriage. Once people get settled in
their seats they don't often move around. Choose a quiet time of the day, and
wait until the train has moved off. Then she can undo her top, or pull up her
skirt for you to see. Of course, you can vary this depending on the time of
day, so that it is busier, or with the number of people around you.
In
the car. Have a look next time you're driving along; its actually quite
difficult to see what passengers in other cars are wearing. Unless you're a
lorry driver, of course. Start off slow, perhaps without jeans/skirt and get
braver by not wearing a top. Braver still with feet on the dashboard while
using a vibrator. Even braver is to do that while stuck in a traffic jam with a
lorry on the passenger side.
I've labelled all of these as 'novice',
with some twists in there. I'm sure you can think of twists on them, and
there's plenty of others you could do as well. However, really they're not
'novice' - if that's all you want to do, that's fine. There is no race, no 'one
true way', just go with what you feel happy doing.
If your sub started out shy, but you've managed to beg, plead, order or
demand her, she should hopefully have got more confidence by this point, which
was the whole point of the exercise. The next stage is a little more dangerous,
and perhaps a little more exciting. Up until now, its been reasonably easy to
cover up and to act as though nothing happened. You might want to try some
situations where its not quite as easy.
At the beach. Wearing a
bikini into the water and 'loose' the top. Or the bottom. Or both. Still looks
accidental, and its unlikely anyone would mind that much if they did happen to
catch an eyefull. For added excitement, place your beachmat quite far up the
beach, so she has to walk back. For a little more safety, have the mat closer
to the sea and have a towel handy.
Wear a low-cut t-shirt. The
athletic body builder types are good for this, the ones with the large arm
holes. Difficult not to flash in that situation, and if anyone is particularly
interested, they can work out for themselves the best position to stand in to
get a good look. Wear it to the supermarket, and lean down into the chill
cabinet, which has added results!
Bodypaint. This is a great one.
You can buy cheap bodypaint in toy shops, and a little bit of practice should
result in a reasonable facsimile of a bikini top. (Links to some pictures from
my home page). People 'see' the bikini, they don't see that there isn't one.
Oopps! Choose an old dress (for reasons as you'll see), with nothing
underneath. Accidently catch the dress in the car door when getting out, and
walk away, ripping it off. You might need to do some work on the seams for this
to work properly.
Clothing store Wearing t-shirt and jumper, go into
a clothing store and decide to try on a new top. Remove the jumper, but by
accident, remove the t-shirt as well.
Water. Choose a top which goes
transparent when wet. Plenty of ways to get it wet.
Scaring the
owlsStart going out late at night. Especially in the summer, cool night air
is lovely against the skin. Try walking along the road with nothing on under a
light coat. Open the coat, or remove it entirely. Walk some way away from your
sub, and get them to walk along quite naked. Don't go too far, because if a car
does come around the corner, you want to be in a position to cover her quickly;
you don't want the driver to think she's been attacked.
The woods
Take a walk in the woods, off the beaten track. Discard clothing as you go.
If you find a nice suntrap, lay out a blanket for some nude sunbathing. If
anyone does come by, its unlikely that they'll be too distressed.
Photo
booths ... are not just for taking photographs to put into your
passport!
Still with me? Good.. because now is where it starts to get really
interesting. If you've been patient and encouraging and your sub has built up
her confidence you can really start getting daring. We're at the point of no
return now… if she gets seen, well, she gets seen and there isn't a damn
thing to be done about it.
Back to the woods. (I like woods, but you
probably guessed that by now). Wear old clothes (you're way ahead of me at this
point aren't you!). Once into the woods, rip them off. There will still be
material available for coverup, but its going to be increasingly difficult to
remain modest.
An early morning walk. Sunday, 6am. Everyone should
be in bed, but you never can tell. Walk the same streets that you did at night,
trying out the things mentioned above.
Celebrations Get a little too
excited at an open air party… people don't usually care what happens when
they're celebrating England winning an important football match, or listening
to their favourite band at an open air concert.
CarparksVisit a
carpark at night. Carparking can be great fun, if done correctly. You need to
discover the right carpark, which might take some time. Try one located at a
tourist spot or, you guessed it, a wood. Park up and wait. Sooner or later a
car will drive in and park. A little while later you'll probably hear a
rustling as the peeping tom gets a bit closer, at which point you can turn the
car light on, or use a flashlight. Display, play, whatever, with a willing and
enthusiastic audience.
Hotels. Big fun. Get accidently locked
outside the room for a few moments. Or longer. Go into the hotel sauna with
just a towel on. Fun on the way there, while there and on the way back.
This is where you really have the moral dilemma, of course. There are a
few things which can be done though. In case you're wondering, I didn't include
carparking in this section, because the voyeurs are there for a specific
reason, which is to watch. This section is to flash people who weren't
expecting it, but as I said, you don't want to upset them. However, its always
worth being in mind that if you flash quickly, most people won't believe their
eyes.
Escalators. Flash the people going up as you go down. Or vice
versa.
On the train again. Stand up, and flash passengers on the
opposite platform as the train leaves the station. They probably wont believe
what they've seen.
Nudist beaches. People obviously expect nudity on
a beach. Some come specifically to look for it, and you can soon tell. They
tend to circle, getting closer and closer. They can be encouraged, but a simple
glare will usually warn them off. I don't really like this one, since voyeurs
may assume that all naked women on a nude beach want to be watched, but that
isn't always the case of course. Use discretion, and be considerate of the fact
that encouraging people to look at your sub is different to implicitly
encouraging them to look at other women.
Sentry dutyLocate someone
who cannot leave their post. That post might be an icecream van, a 24 hour
garage at night, shopkeeper etc. Get her to wear something revealing, which
shows enough, but not everything. You'll soon get an idea about their level of
enthusiasm, and if they are interested, engage in chitchat. They'll be happy to
do that, trust me. Your sub can slowly unzip or unbutton as appropriate.
Ask them. Subtly, of course. A good opening line is for her to say
to a guy (usually in a quiet place) 'Can you help us out over a disagreement.
My boyfriend seems to think that most men would always say yes to the idea of
seeing a naked female body, while I think they'd be too embarrassed. What do
you think?' If he says he'd be embarrassed, go no further. If he says he
wouldn't, then you know that you're onto a happy voyeur.
Adult
bookshops. Nice idea, but remember, they are there to make money, not to
act as a private playground. You could go in beforehand and ask the owner if he
would mind your sub getting a bit frisky. I doubt it would work, but you could
try.
Adult cinemas. Different game altogether. The men watching the
films would much rather look at real flesh rather than celluloid. They do tend
to get a little enthusiastic though, so without wishing to put you off, make
sure that you are close to an exit in case a quick getaway is in order.
Streaking. We've all seen it happen, but its getting dangerous. Very
easy for the police to be around, ditto journalists. If you don't mind being in
the papers, go for it.
Photographs. It's always fun to have a
memento of the event, but don't forget that you're still involving someone
else, if you have to get the pictures developed. As long as it is just straight
forward nudity there shouldn't be too much of a problem, since the developers
have seen it all before. If in doubt ask. Or, for greater fun, get your sub to
ask. Choose a developer who develops the photographs as they come out of the
developing kit into the window. Make sure you and your sub are there to watch
the photographic evidence being shown in a front window for anyone to see. They
probably wont, but you can never be sure, can you? Alternatively, as was
suggested to me, use a polaroid, or b&w and develop for yourself if you
want 'action shots'.
Those are just a few of the things you might want to
try. They can almost all be amended for greater or lesser exposure depending on
how you feel.
These are just our rules. I don't expect anyone else to follow them, and I'm not saying that you should.
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