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Conferences on the Virtues
By Fr. Bruno Cocuzzi, ocd
Number 49
Detraction
Continuing with
Chapter IV of Sec. B of Part III of the treatise on the Cardinal virtue of
Justice, we come to the
Second
Question – Detraction…
The complete
thought is “detraction from the good name of another”. In other words, defamation of character. It is the unjust and secret “blackening”
of the name of another by word of mouth.
Unjust: that is, when the one speaking is not
obliged “in justice” to reveal certain truths about the person in
question. Were that the case, the
blackening of that person’s name would then be merely an unintended by-product
of the true facts “justly” revealed.
Secret: that is,
spoken in the absence of the person in question.
Blackening: that is, just as the knowledge of a person’s
good qualities, when made known to others, gives “luster” to his name, causing
him to be considered “illustrious”, so also, the knowledge in others of one’s
defects or bad qualities casts a “shadow” upon, or blackens, his name.
The
Name: that is, to distinguish detraction from contempt,
which deprives one of due honor and respect, and from theft, which
deprives one of his material goods.
Of
Another: that is, no one is
forbidden to tell the truth about himself, even though it may serve to bring
about the “blackening” of his reputation.
It
is probably only with the last element of the definition that we might find a
bit of difficulty, namely, that it is never “unjust” for a person to tell the
“awful” truth about himself.
My
own personal opinion is that there may be times that
“telling the awful truth” about oneself may cause scandal to the young and to
the weak, and thus would be an occasion of sin for them.
Also,
telling the “awful truth” about ourselves very often reflects upon our families
and relatives, with the result that their “names” are “blackened” in virtue of
their being identified with us.
In
the first case, however, it is charity and not justice that is offended,
whereas in the second instance, it does seem that justice is violated,
since everyone, including our relatives, is “entitled” to a good name.
There
is simple detraction, when the bad quality or vice of the victim is
true, but unjustly (without a justifying reason) revealed; and there is calumny,
when the vice or bad quality is falsely attributed to the victim. Thus, calumny adds the sin of lying to the
sin of detraction.
There
are also several ways in which the sin of detraction and calumny may be
committed. It is done directly
when the sinful defect is clearly and openly stated. It is committed indirectly when one does not state it
openly, but does so by “insinuation”, “by denying” that the person possesses
the opposite virtue or good quality, and “by diminishing” the degree, the
intensity, or the “firmly rootedness” (so to speak) of the good quality in
question.
St.
Thomas Aquinas enumerates four direct ways to commit this sin, and four indirect.
Direct: (1) To falsely impute
a sin to another, (2) To exaggerate the sin of another, (3) To reveal
heretofore-unknown sins of another, and (4) To allege that a person’s good
deeds are performed for evil purposes.
Indirect: (1) To deny that a person possesses a good
quality, (2) To maliciously withhold knowledge of a person’s good qualities,
(3) Diminishing the good qualities, and (4) Reluctantly acknowledging them.
And
he goes further by giving explicit examples of how the indirect detraction can
be achieved, which he states is often more harmful and malicious than direct
calumny and detraction, e.g.:
“I’m
not telling all that I know…”
“Some
things are better left unsaid…”
“Yes,
those things were well done. Would that
that were true of everything he does…”
“It
is better to forget about the past. It
is a closed book…”
“Yes,
he is pious, but…”
“I
could say things that would make him blush…”
Finally,
the detraction could be formal or material. It is formal when one deliberately
says things to harm the reputation of another.
It is material when, though not explicitly intended, one foresees
that what he says will do harm to another’s reputation, but says them
anyway: whether out of levity,
loquacity, or lack of reflection on the part of the speaker.
My
author alleges that simple detraction and calumny are both sins against justice
that by their very nature are serious, although, of course, the degree of harm
done could run from very slight to very grave.
Though less serious in essence than murder and adultery, they are more
serious than theft. This is clearly
true when they are formal sins, but it is true also when they are material,
and committed with full and sufficient awareness.
They
violate commutative justice because they amount to taking from one’s
neighbor a good of great value.
The good in question, a good name or reputation is much more
valuable than riches. [Here we have in
mind the ordinary, good Christian.
Certainly there are greedy, avaricious people who prefer money to a good
name. Nevertheless, being spiritual
in nature, a good name is objectively more valuable than a material
entity].
Because
we are “social” beings, we need to rely on one another in so many ways and for
so many things in order to lead decent, ordered, fruitful and happy lives. But this would be impossible if all citizens
(or at least the far greater majority) did not enjoy a good name and
reputation. Surely this “proves” that a
good name is more valuable than material goods.
Someone
might object that it is O.K. to divulge the secret, serious sins of others,
because that is what makes a person “disreputable” and thus “unreliable”. And must we not ALL be on guard when dealing
with such individuals?
The
problem with that is that, though we are all sinners, the vast majority of
folks we deal with ARE decent people trying to lead good lives. They deplore their sinfulness and try to
overcome it. Besides, most of us fall
into sin not out of deliberate malice, but because of the woundedness of our
human nature. Generally speaking, then,
we must deem EVERYONE “reliable” and worthy of our trust.
The
truth is, it pertains first to God to judge concerning sins and the punishments
they deserve, and next to those who are lawfully constituted judges in civil society. Thus, to judge another to be so wicked as to
have lost his right to a good name, and to punish him by causing others to be
distrustful of him, is the same as having usurped the rights of God the Just
Judge, and the rights of duly and lawfully constituted judges in society.
These
same sins also violate legal justice.
Practical considerations show that if it were permissible to tell
the secret sins of others, this would bring about great harm to the common
good. Disagreements, physical quarrels,
envy and hatred would become commonplace, and the common good would be
non-existent.
St.
Thomas says that these sins also violate Charity, since the “goodness” of
others, (i.e., their having a good name) is the basis of every
friendship.
Friendship
(benevolence) is considered the purest form of love, and our need to be loved
for our own sake and not for the gratification we can give to others is perhaps
the greatest need we have. Yes, that
need is satisfied because God loves with an infinitely pure love, but God has
constituted us in such a way that we need to experience that same kind of love
from others (as well as to give it).
Besides, it is Faith, which is based on hearing, that assures us of
God’s infinite love for us. In His
wisdom, God wants us to have at least some tangible evidence of His Love
for us, and he chooses other human beings, our friends, to mediate that Love to
us.
Thus
Sacred Scripture enumerates detractors and those who speak evil of others as
among those who are hateful to God and to men, and who are excluded from the
Kingdom of Heaven (Romans 1:29,30; I Corinthians 6:10). My author asserts that the Fathers of the
Church have called detraction and calumny abominations and the work
of the devil.
And
he reminds us that St. Bernard of Clairvaux, a Latin Father and Doctor of the
Church, has said that the detractor [and calumniator] fatally wounds three
persons with one breath: himself, his
listener, and the object of the detraction [and calumny].
Although
he seems to have given us quite enough already concerning these serious sins of
injustice, the author of my textbook makes some observations for the purpose of
helping us better to understand:
(1) The
right to a good name
(2) The
evil of detraction and calumny
(3) What
are the reasons that “excuse” those who reveal the hidden sins and defects of
others.
A. Everyone has the right to be thought well of
by others, that is, the right to an ordinary Good Name.
What this means
is that everyone may rightfully expect to be treated humanely by others in
interpersonal exchanges, to wit, as one who possess the virtues and good
qualities of decent, upright human beings.
Until one has done something evil in public, he has the right to
be considered an “ordinary” good person.
This right
embraces not only a true good name, which is founded upon actual
existing good qualities, but also a false one, which is founded upon
good qualities that are ordinarily “presumed” to exist in each person, but
which, unknown to others, do not exist in a particular individual.
One might
possess this right directly and of himself in virtue of good deeds
accomplished and witnessed by those with whom he has daily personal
relationships. When the evidence
of good qualities is perceived in this way, the right becomes absolute and
universal in the sense that EVERY OTHER person is obliged to hold such a one in
ordinary good esteem.
The right to a false
good name clearly IS NOT something direct and of oneself, is indirect,
in so far as one’s want of good qualities IS NOT PUBLICLY KNOWN, but upon the
fact that one “apparently” is an ordinary good person, and upon the fact that
the common good would be seriously harmed if everyone were obliged to
“demonstrate” good qualities in order to be treated humanely and with ordinary
esteem.
We may say,
then that the right to a good name is really grounded upon a public as
well as a private necessity.
Public: Otherwise, (that is, if one’s lack of good
qualities were publicly known), such a person would not be able to function
well in society; he would lose all credibility and respect and he would be
lacking normal, friendly relations with others. In addition, those close to him would share in the shame of a bad
reputation.
Private: Because whoever has a bad reputation is
deprived of one of the best and most effective means of avoiding evil. Often the very fear of losing one’s
reputation is sufficient to keep one from straying from the path of
goodness. Again, while one’s secret
sins remain unknown, a person finds it easier to repent and return to a good
life.
As
St. Thomas states: “it is a serious
evil to take from another his good name, because among all the good things that
can be enjoyed in this earthly life, it is most precious. The want of a good name also discourages one
from trying to do good. For which
reason we read in Sirach, 41:12: ‘Have
a care for your [good] name, for it will stand by you better than precious
treasures…’ And so, in and of itself, detraction [and calumny] is a mortal
sin.”
Therefore,
the right to a “false” good name IS NOT absolute and universal,
but is rather conditional for the sake of the public and private good,
and limited thereby. It ceases to exist
whenever some very notable good of the revealer, of the delinquent himself, of
some innocent third party, or of society itself requires that the secret sins
be made public.
In
other words, it is a sin to deprive another of his false good name
unless failure to do so results in harm to society or to an innocent
third party that outweighs the value of a good reputation.
B. No
one has the right to an extraordinary good name (reputation), which is founded
upon singular (out of the ordinary) gifts and talents,
for example, as an outstanding theologian, homilist, medical doctor, etc.
To
enjoy a reputation of this sort, one must REALLY AND TRULY possess the
extraordinary qualities. Therefore it
is not a sin against justice to reveal that the “above and beyond the ordinary”
is lacking in specific instances.
Neither would it be a violation of charity, provided there is a
proportionately grave reason to do so.
C. What
has just been said about private persons is also true for moral persons
and for pretty much the same reasons.
Furthermore,
it is especially true of the deceased.
The reason being that the immortal soul continues to live on after
separation from the body, and so continues as a subject of those rights
that are not founded upon the needs of bodily life. Because a good name is one such good and
valuable entity, everyone may rightly desire [and may rightfully do those
things to insure] that his good name will be retained after his death.
But
with regard to the deceased, a good name is of less value to them than to the
living, and one may suppose that the deceased are less unwilling
to see their good reputation harmed.
Therefore, to calumniate a deceased person is not as serious a sin as to
calumniate someone who is still alive.
In
regard to simple detraction (merely making known true sins and faults), the
right to a good name (for the deceased) must yield to the common
right to know the historical truth.
But again, with the proviso that the reputation of living persons and
existing institutions ARE NOT notably injured thereby.
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