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The Eclectic Coven of Red Mountain

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Handfasting Page

As part of our service to the community, ECRM members are honored to perform legal handfastings. To inquire, feel free to contact us at eclecticcoven@hotmail.com or at our personal email addresses (see Members page).

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Handfasting Information

The ritual of handfasting is defined in the Oxford English dictionary as "a contract of marriage between (parties) by joining of hands." Handfasting ceremonies vary between traditions and individuals, but do tend to resemble standard wedding ceremonies since they serve the same purposes. Wiccan couples frequently write their own vows, and may even compose their own handfasting rituals. In general, a Wiccan handfasting will include the standard ceremonial practices of Wiccan ritual -- casting a circle, calling the quarters, invoking Goddess and God. The couple make vows to each other, are handfasted, and jump the broom. The circle is cleared, and a reception usually follows.

Marriage laws vary from state to state. To be legally married in the State of Alabama a couple must obtain a valid marriage license at their local courthouse and the marriage must be solemnized by an officiate empowered by his/her religious society according to the rules of that religious society (or by someone who otherwise empowered to perform such a ceremony, like a Justice of the Peace), and that person must subsequently file a record with the state, within 30 days. (Also, the couple must consist of a man and a woman -- Same-sex unions are not legal in any state other than Vermont, but Pagan clergy may perform such ceremonies with the understanding that they are not legally binding.) As long as the marriage license is obtained and the paperwork filed by the officiant, the couple is legally married.

Marriage License information for Jefferson County, Alabama -- where ECRM is located -- is provided below. For information on the marriage laws of other states go to http://www.angelfire.com/ca/redgarters/marriage.html and/or consult your local courthouse. For a state-by-state list of clergyfolk able to perform legally binding ceremonies available through Pagan Clergy Resources, go to http://www.wildhunt.org/clergy/officiants.html. and http://www.geocities.com/tuathadedenalaura/StatebyState.html.

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Marriage License Information for Jefferson County, Alabama (available at http://www.jeffcointouch.com/ under "Permits and Licenses")

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