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The

Ten Commandments

As Revelation

 

Fr. Bruno Cocuzzi, OCD

 

 

First Conference

 

 

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One thing we perceive about children and young people is that they always seem to be testing their limits.  They always seem to be wanting to escape parental control.  It appears that children and young people tend to perceive parental authority as something restrictive and oppressive, something they try to shake off.  Unless children and young people have an extraordinary, great love for their parents, they see them as opponents whose wills are in conflict with their own.  It is rare that children and young people interpret the will of their parents, which they find restrictive and confining, as something that is good for them.  They seldom understand that a command to act in a certain way is a command to do what contributes to their well-being.  On the other hand, they seldom grasp that a prohibition to do certain things is a command to avoid what would harm them.  It is true, of course, that the good that the parents want and intend by controlling the activities of their children is something that is harvested later on in life, and the same is true of the evils they would have them escape.  Thus it is that children and young people think of themselves as engaged in a power struggle with their parents, and they long for the day when they are adults and no longer subject to parental authority, and the authority of everyone that in some way shared in some small way in the responsibilities of their parents.

 

Now it seems to me that many Christians tend to view the Ten Commandments in pretty much the same way.  Christians tend to see the commandments as the arbitrary impositions of a more powerful will.  Still others as the price that must be paid to avoid the punishment meted out to whoever violates the will of the superior being.  In other words, the price to pay to escape Hell.  Rare are the Christians who look upon the commandments as a set of instructions that help us human beings to function properly and to help us enter upon the road that leads to our perfection as human beings.

 

If we look upon them as the price to pay to escape Hell and earn the reward of eternal life, we tend to think of the reward as something separate and distinct from ourselves.  It is like a faithful employee being rewarded with a party and some nice gift when he retires from his job.  It is something separate from him.

 

 

But the reward we call eternal life is not something separate from ourselves.  It is the state or condition of highest perfection of our being, namely that of having achieved that degree of participation in God’s life, the true life, that we were created for.

 

Thus I think it behooves us to reflect upon the Ten Commandments as revelation and believe it is helpful to see them, not only as a set of commands, but also as containing doctrine, information concerning ourselves.  In the process I hope we can learn to appreciate them as instructions that help us move closer to the state of perfect well-being.  After all, we tend to over-look the fact that the Latin word we translate as “salvation” originally meant “health” or “wholeness”.

 

Before we begin, though, let us take a few moments to remind ourselves why we need Divine Revelation in the first place, and why we should appreciate and cherish the Ten Commandments as good and desirable.  Unlike children, who don’t know why they perceive parental authority as infringements on their freedom, we do know why we, at least once upon a time in our lives, experienced the commandments as contrary to all our “natural” tendencies and desires.  That reason, we know, is the wounded-ness of our human nature.  It is the effects of that wounded-ness that we perceive in children and young people, as described at the beginning of this conference.

 

When we speak about the wounds inflicted upon human nature by the sin of Adam and Eve, we most often begin with the intellect, namely, that it is darkened.  What that means is that our minds find it difficult to discover truth, that is:  moral truth.  Then we speak of weakness in the will.  We know that even in those cases where somehow the intellect is able to point out where moral truth lies (good and correct behavior), the will lacks the strength to impel us to embrace that moral truth.  Finally, we say that our lower appetites (of sense and spirit - the ego) are in total disarray.  They are disordered not only because they will not obey the intellect and will commanding them to embrace more noble goods over less noble ones, they can hunger so keenly after less noble and even illusory goods - i.e. what gratifies the senses and the ego - that they begin to control the intellect and will.  In other words, they cause the intellect to become blind to objective truth.  They can command the intellect to label “good” what is really evil, or to “find” - to fabricate reasons to justify conduct that will satisfy its cravings, conduct that is really sinful.

 

The other side of the coin is that the lower sense appetites are able to influence the intellect to label as “evil” whatever inflicts pain upon them, and they can instruct the intellect to fabricate reasons why certain conduct they find repugnant should be avoided, even though that conduct is good and required by the duties the soul owes to God and others.

 

Therefore, because of the wounds we have just been describing, the human race has lost the ability, left to itself, to differentiate between moral good and moral evil, between moral truth and falsehood, between right and wrong.  But even with the help of others, even with Divine Revelation, we still tend to submit to the disorder in our human nature.  We still tend to accept falsehood as truth and vice versa.  We still tend to “do lies” in our daily conduct.

 

 

That is because the redemptive death of Jesus removed only the “guilt” of original sin, and it can be applied to remove the “guilt” of personal sins.  It does not automatically heal the wounds caused in our human nature by original sin, nor heal the aggravations of those wounds caused by our personal sins.  As Adam and Eve freely chose to embrace falsehood and so bring about those wounds, so now each of us, their descendants, must freely choose to undertake that course of action which little by little restores integrity, health, due order to our individual human natures.  This is where we locate the Ten Commandments.  They show us in what way we tend to do lies, so that by observing them, we eliminate moral falsehood, we are able to avoid sin.

 

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Let us now begin to look at the commandments.  The first one reads: “I, the Lord, am your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, that place of slavery.  You shall not have other gods besides Me.” So we can ask the question, “what is revealed, that is, what doctrine does this commandment contain?”  To discover that, we need to look at the errors that were prevalent in the world at the time God gave the commandments to Moses.

 

One error was that God was no longer known as a being that is friendly to mankind, as a being personally interested in the welfare of mankind.  If there remained some concept of a superior, intelligent being, it was a being which was arbitrary and capricious, not at all kindly disposed toward human beings.

 

Furthermore, knowledge that there is only one Supreme being, who alone is in control of all created nature was also lost.  Mankind began to believe that there were as many gods as there are identifiable forces or powers in the universe, and that each god therefore controlled one particular aspect or facet of nature.  It was further mistakenly thought that all of them were in competition with one another.

 

Again, because of the wounds of original sin, all concept of the worth and dignity of the human person was lost.  There was no greater value placed on human life than its usefulness.  Human life was valued pretty much the way cattle or horses or beasts of burden were valued in terms of how they could serve the interests of tribe or ruler.  Human life was even sacrificed to the gods, and even Israelites fell into it even after entering the promised land.  So I do believe that in the first commandment we just read we find the truth that rescues from those errors.

 

“I, the Lord am your God.” The true God is a person who has entered into a relationship with His human creatures.  We see the dignity of the human person, the dignity of human life.  God tells us that He is ours, He belongs to us in some way.  There is a wonderful something about us that enables us to make claims upon Him.  Does it not suggest that we can look to Him for help in all our needs, and rely upon Him to use His resources for our benefit?  But then again, He also can rely upon us and upon our resources to serve Him and His interests.

 

He reveals, this personal Deity who chooses to be related to us, that He alone is the Lord.  It is stated in absolute terms.  Therefore, He has total utter dominion over all of creation.  His power extends to the limits of the universe.  Nothing happens that does not fall within the reach of His permissive will.  He has supreme rights over all created beings, ourselves included.  He is the source and the giver of all we have and are. 

 

By revealing Himself again as one who is “related” to His human creatures, God helps us understand what it means to be a “person,” and that it is “person-hood” that bestows extraordinary dignity upon each human individual.  The first thing that comes to mind is the fact that a “person” cannot be considered a “thing.”  A person can never be considered “property”.  To treat a person as if he or she were a thing is to make “slaves” of them.  A slave is not able to have a say in where he goes or how he is used because he has been totally deprived of rights.  The sublime dignity of the human person is revealed in the fact that even God respects the free will He has given us.  Even though He has the right to receive our acknowledgment from Him as our Lord and God, and a further right to our cooperation in serving His interests, that is, in the fulfillment of His desires for His human family, He will not force us to comply.  He will not violate our free will.  Although this first commandment does not specify in what way this Lord and God relies upon our cooperation in the unfolding of His plan for humankind, we are so instructed by the Book of Genesis.  There we see that He has surrendered part of His dominion over all creation to us when He instructs Adam and Eve: Increase and multiply!  Fill the earth (with human life, obviously), and subdue it.

 

The first commandment also reveals what it means for Him to be our God.  Considered from the practical point of view and in reference to our fallen, wounded human nature, it defines God as the one who brings us out of “Egypt”, that place of slavery.  Of course, for the Israelites and Moses, that meant literally being delivered from their condition as slaves of Pharaoh.  Their status as free beings, the repository of rights others are obliged to respect, was restored.  They were no longer property.  They were “persons” again.

 

For us, however, we understand being delivered from Egypt, that place of slavery in a figurative sense.  We interpret it to mean being delivered from the tyranny of fallen human nature, or in other words, delivered from slavery to sin.

 

Another way of saying that to be a person means having a say in where one goes and what one does is to say that to be a person means to be autonomous, or self-determining.  Just as God shares responsibility with us in the management of created nature, He also shares with us the responsibility of bringing us to the perfection He has in mind for each of us.  If this first commandment were the only one, we would feel justified in deciding to be anything we wanted to be.  We would tend to think that there is no limit set to our rights of self-determination.  Thankfully, the other commandments help us to see that there are limits and what those limits are.  Still, because of the wounds of human nature spoken of earlier, we do tend to fall into the same error that Adam and Eve fell into.  Even though they were perfect and were ware that God, their Creator and personal friend had given them autonomy so that they could freely discharge their responsibilities as stewards of human life and managers of the rest of created nature, they allowed themselves to be deceived by Satan into thinking that God had unjustly denied them the freedom to become His very equals.  They chose to believe the lie that they could get beyond the boundaries of their creature-hood and decide for themselves what is good and what is evil.  They wanted to be like God, the author of all creation, in being able to say: “Whatever I do is good by the mere fact that I do it.”  This error is very prevalent today.

 

Of course, what the true God delivers us from is the disorder in our human nature which inclines us to embrace lies and evil as if they were true and good, and to flee truth and good as if they were lies and evil.  The true God delivers us by offering us the opportunity and the means to become His friends and collaborators in an even more wonderful undertaking on behalf of His human creatures: that of participating in His life as His Children by adoption, and in sharing that Divine, supernatural life with others.  The commandments help us to take our first steps in that direction.

 

The first “commandment” concludes with a true commandment.  The first sentence of it was a statement of facts.  It is this part which reveals how we tend to live out false-hood and to do lies so we can avoid them.  It says: “Thou shalt not have other gods besides me.”  He would not say it if we weren’t doing it.  We turn to false gods because they appear to offer us the means of freeing us from slavery, that is, from impediments to the exercise of autonomy, of self-determination.  You know what they are as well as I do: money, power, and anything else, like beauty and talent, that enables us to obtain money and power, or at least influence over those who do.  Fallen human nature still inclines us to think that if I am able to do something or get something, it is perfectly O.K.  We’ve all heard the saying: Might makes Right.

 

The exercise of true autonomy, true self-determination requires knowledge, knowledge of not only its limits, but also knowledge of the various possibilities, our legitimate options.  The commands are given so that we might begin to learn what they are, even though in a negative way by telling us what choices, acts of self-determination, we cannot make because they are false and evil.

 

 

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Second Conference

 

 

Having considered the First Commandment in our last conference, we will now consider the second and third commandments. 

 

The second commandment reads: “You shall not take the name of the Lord, your God in vain, for the Lord will not leave unpunished him who takes His name in vain.”  Again, we shall try to see how we tend to “do false-hood” in regard to “take Lord’s name”.

 

But before we do, it is worthwhile to notice that the Jews of the Old Testament were not really sure what it meant to take the Lord’s name in vain.  Because they were afraid that they might accidentally use His name in vain they would use circumlocutions or substitute words, or simply omit it altogether.  So we have to try to figure out some of the ways we tend to take His name in vain.

 

In so far as God is the Lord, one obvious way to take His name in vain would be to acknowledge Him as such in our speech, and then empty the word of meaning and content by acting as if He were not our Lord, that is failing to see His providence in all the events of our lives, never giving a thought to what His will might be in regard to how we conduct our affairs, going about our business as if He didn’t even exist.  In other words, to call God Lord, but to show by our thoughts, words and deeds that we don’t mean it.

 

Thankfully, we have examples from our Catholic Theology that do reveal how in specific instances we tend to take God’s name in vain.  One way is by denying certain of His attributes or attributing to Him qualities unworthy of Him and which cannot be found in Him.  I have to correct a statement I just made; these ways of taking the name of the Lord in vain were known to the Jews of the Old Testament.  The example I have just given is called blasphemy.

 

By way of denial, one would be guilty of blasphemy by stating that God is not all-good, all-wise, all-holy, all-powerful, all-merciful, all-loving, or any one of these attributes.  Or to deny that in a certain instance, He did not manifest one or more of them in our regard.

 

By way of attributing to Him qualities foreign to His nature, one might hold Him responsible for evil and tragedy in the World, or to suggest that certain events or situations are beyond the reach of His wisdom and power. 

 

One common way of falling into the sin of blasphemy, very prevalent today, is to deny that God is Just.  It happens when people say that God could not create a Hell where damned souls would suffer eternally.  This also includes a denial that God is Faithful, true to Himself.

 

The definition of justice is to give each other his due that belongs to him by right.  Everyone has a right to have his choices respected.  As we said, even God is obliged to respect our free choices, that is how He is Faithful to Himself.  So if any one were to choose - that is knowingly and deliberately - something or someone other than God, God is obliged to permit it.  If perchance a person were to die persisting in the choice of something other than God’s Will - which is the same as choosing something other than God - that person remains separated from God for all eternity.  And that is what Hell is.

 

God could not be true to Himself, faithful, if He were to ignore that choice, and in effect say: You freely chose something or someone in preference to me, but that’s O.K.  I am going to give myself to you anyway.  I am going to ignore your person-hood, the autonomy I gave you.  God is, He simply cannot go out of existence.  But that is what people are expecting Him to do by their denial that Hell exists.  So though we do not hear the word very often, blasphemy is a common sin in this day and age.

 

Another way in which the Lord’s name can be “violated”, which was also known to the Jews of the Old Testament, is by violating one’s oath.  (In the New Testament Jesus says we should avoid even taking oaths).  As you know, an oath in effect calls upon God as witness to the truth of what one states.  When a person tells a lie under oath, he is asking God to be his accomplice in telling a lie.  Once again, to ask God, who is Supreme Truth, to lie, is the same as asking Him to cease to be, to go out of existence, a most grievous offense against Him.

 

Another way of committing the sin of blasphemy would be to doubt the veracity of Sacred Scripture.  This would be implicit!!  As the Word of God, Scripture must be accepted as true.  Although it is true that there are obscure passages in scripture, and we can never be absolutely sure what they mean, we do acknowledge that, as God’s word, they must be retained as they came down to us and not be tampered with.  So it is really when clear, unequivocal passages are denied that implicit blasphemy occurs.  For example, people, Christians, deny the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist, they deny the indissolubility of marriage between baptized Christians, they deny that acted-out homosexuality is a sin (an abomination, actually).  Another example would be to deny the primacy of St. Peter and his successors as the foundation of Church unity, indeed, as a guarantee that the Church would last until the end of time, that the gates of Hell, the power of Satan would not prevail against it.  Since Satan is a liar and the Father of lies, the only way he can overthrow the Church is to introduce error in Faith and Morals.  Therefore, those who say the successor of St. Peter is not the God-given guarantee of inerrancy in Faith and Morals, the bulwark against error in Faith and Morals is denying the evident, literal truth of Jesus’  (the Father’s) words to St. Peter at Philippi.

 

I suppose one might say that every time a sin is committed, truth, God’s Word is violated, so that is a sin of blasphemy, a sin against the second Commandment.  But most often sins are deeds done contrary to truth but not denials of the Truthfulness of God the revealer.  In most sins we just choose to act contrary to God’s will for us, we do not intend to deny any of His attributes or to attribute evil attributes to Him.

 

Still another violation against the second commandment also known to the Jews of the Old Testament is “superstition” and other forms of “divination.”  This denies the reach of God’s power in the sense that it is based on the idea that some “practice” or some object or person other than God can give us something that God either does not want to give or can’t give (superstition) or to give information about the future (divination or fortune telling).  Superstition also extends to trying to avert things, keeping things from happening by “practices” or other means.  The sin in this is attributing to creature’s powers what only God possesses, and this too is a form of blasphemy.

 

Still another violation of the second Commandment is to fail to fulfill a vow or to make an invalid or illicit  vow.  A vow as you know adds the aspect of “worship” to any obligation we assume outright or which we have in virtue of our state in life.  To violate a vow is then to deny God the worship due Him: Worship, of course, consists of acknowledging in word as in ritual the truth of God’s divinity, His absolute rights over us, and our dependence upon Him as the source of all that is good.

 

To make an invalid or illicit vow would be to try to turn into an act of worship some conduct that is inherently forbidden.  For example, a married person might decide to take a vow of celibacy.  Since that is a direct contradiction to the marriage vow already accepted by God, the vow is a non-entity.  To ask God to accept a non-entity as an act of worship violates His name.

 

But there is still another way that can be considered taking God’s name in vain when we think of it as a family name.

 

In the Old Testament we can see how a family name can be taken in vain.  As children of Abraham, the Israelites were to imitate the Faith of Abraham.  Yet we know Jesus told the Scribes and Pharisees that, if Abraham were their father, they would be doing the works of Abraham.  But that was not so much taking Abraham’s name in vain.  It was bearing it in vain.  Applied to us Christians, do we bear the name of Christ in vain?  Unless we live up to all that it means to be “of Christ”, we are carrying the name in vain.

 

Since we are inserted into Christ at Baptism and began to live by the Spirit of Christ, all the characteristic features of Jesus are supposed to show up in our conduct: His love for and devotion to His Father (and His Mother), His willingness to suffer a redemptive death; His coming to serve rather than to be served, His Mercy toward sinners; His desire to forgive and reconcile them; His thirst for souls.

 

As members of Christ’s body, too, of God’s family, our interests and those of all Christians merge into one.  There can be no competition with regard to family interests, no exclusive ownership.  All that we have and are is for the good of all the members of the family.  To act in ways that deny these truths is to take or bear our family name of Christian in vain.

 

Now how do we understand the warning: “God does not leave unpunished him who takes His name in vain”?  Is God vindictive?  Does He say: “I’ll show you!  I’ll get even with you?”  I am sure He does not, but rather He is reminding us that He constructed us and human society in such a way that suffering and misery are introduced into our lives when we persist in not living up to our status as His children.  But in doing that, He does us a great favor, these evils cause us to repent and return to Him.  In a sense, that is how God practices “tough-love.”  He wants us never to forget that He forgives sin; He never “condones” it.

 

At this point let us turn our attention to the third Commandment: “Remember to keep Holy the Sabbath Day.  Six days you may labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord, your God.  No work may be done either by you, or your son or daughter, or your male or female slave, or your beast, or by the oxen alien who lives with you.  In six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea and all that is in them, but on the seventh day He rested.  That is why the Lord has blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.”

 

 

The two elements to take note of is that the Sabbath is intended first to be a day of rest, and second, a day of Holy rest. 

 

The purpose of the day of rest has not changed in the millennia since the Ten Commandments were given.  And that is to give due attention and care to the spiritual aspect of our humanity, and part of that is to remember our relationship with the Lord our God.  The falsehood from which this commandment rescues us is to think that there is no more to us than our bodily component, and that the material aspect of our humanity is the end-all and be-all of our existence.

 

We also have to be aware, though, that rest can serve other purposes than that intended by God in this third commandment.  All activity, whether physical or mental does tire the body, and it must be rested.  Rest in itself is neutral - we rest every night - and it replenishes energy that is used for the pursuit of corruptible goals and compensations as well as in the pursuit of our heavenly reward.  So that is why the day of rest must be kept holy, that is, attuned to God, our only true End and Good.

 

So what do we mean by a holy rest?  Negatively speaking, it means not profane.  In the time of the prophets, God spoke to the merchants who resented the Sabbath because it interfered with their pursuit of wealth.  They spent the Sabbath thinking about how they could increase their profits, not excluding thinking of how they might cheat their customers.  So “profanity” that is opposed to holiness would be practically anything that had to do with mere human concerns.

 

In the case of those merchants, it is evident that they had chosen money as their god.  That suggests that when we are not engaged in the obligations as citizens of this world we cannot help but turn our attention to our God, whether it be the true God or a false god.  When our minds are not occupied with daily needs, it seems they automatically revert to what we treasure most, what we look to for contentment and happiness.

 

That being the case, we see how “natural” it is for those who take the day of rest to devote a part of the day to actual “worship” of their god.  As we said already, worship is a ritual expression of our relationship to God, our dependence upon Him, our Gratitude to Him, and our need of His favor and protection.  Surely, those people who don’t go to Church on the day of rest must also engage in rituals that are expressions of worship of their false-god.

 

Does that mean Christians should not engage in recreational activities and seek diversion and entertainment on Sunday?  Of course not, these do have an important part to play in helping us to persevere in the love and service of God through the fulfillment of the obligations of our state in life, so that the participation in Sunday worship and the awareness of the character of the day of rest is sufficient to sanctify all those other “neutral” pastimes.

 

One sad feature of today’s society is that people work on Sunday, even Catholics.  But because this is forced upon them by family needs, the higher law of charity takes precedence, so that the “violation” is technical, not culpable.

 

 

Jesus was accused of violating the third commandment, the Sabbath rest.  In truth, He was keeping it holy in the highest possible way: By doing charitable works; after all - Charity is the most acceptable form of worship; it expresses God’s nature and our status as His children.

 

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Third Conference

 

 

We will continue to reflect on the commandments in an effort to see what they reveal about our tendencies to choose lies or falsehood over truth and what is real, not illusory.

 

The fourth commandment: Honor your father and your mother, that you may have a long life in the land which the Lord, your God, is giving you.

 

This is the only commandment, which is stated, in positive terms.  In all the others we are told not to act in certain ways.  I suppose the reason is that all the commandments go counter to our natural inclination.  We naturally, because of human nature which is wounded, are inclined to lie or to cheat or to hurt others, so we are told not to permit those tendencies to go unchecked.  On the other hand, we have a natural tendency to overlook and forget all the things our parents did for us from the time we were born to the day we left home to be on our own.  It is a natural tendency because we got so accustomed to their being there to look after us that we never dreamed that it required generosity and self sacrifice day after day.  We may have imagined that it was easy for them and enjoyable for them to assume responsibility for our up-bringing.  Thus we tend to forget that we owe them a debt of gratitude, that we show them reverence and respect at all times, and follow that up by helping and comforting them in their old age.

 

But, of course, the fourth commandment extends to more than our relationship with our parents.  It extends to the entire concept of authority.  Authority is a word that is clearly related to the word “authorship”.  The fourth commandment has to do with our origins, not only our physical origin, but also our origin as “social beings”.  We are persons standing in relationship to others.  The fourth commandment has to do with our inter-dependence.  Therefore, just as we are obliged to honor and respect our parents as authors of our physical life, we have a corresponding obligation to honor and respect lawful authority, those who are entrusted with the task of “authoring” our well being as members of society.

 

As we were growing up to adult-hood, it was through obedience to our parents that our minds and hearts were formed.  While we were growing up, obedience was the most perfect way to show them honor and reverence.  It is through obedience to lawful authority that we best show due reverence to those who are responsible for our social well being.

 

What then, would be some of the ways that we tend to do falsehood in regard to our relationships with those in authority?  We have already dealt with this somewhat when we spoke in our first conference of how subordinates tend to see authority as something arbitrary and capricious, as an enemy of one’s freedom and personal interests, as something that stifles and restricts our initiative.  We don’t see authority as something good and necessary for everyone, particularly to keep the smaller and the weaker from being hurt by the bigger and the stronger.  The purpose of authority is to create peace and harmony in our social relationships.  We tend to be blind to the fact that it is the absence of authority that cause strife and enmity in human relationships.

 

But if there are errors and falsehood on the part of subjects, it is much more true that errors are prevalent in the exercise of authority.  One very prevalent error is the notion that positions of authority confer the right to enrich oneself or to provide a means to pursue purely personal goals and objectives.  The lie is to disassociate the idea of service and stewardship from the notion of authority.  There is a “greatness” that goes with authority, but Jesus points out that it is realized only in “serving” the best interests of others.  “Whoever would be greatest among you must serve all the rest.”

 

It appears that any and all errors in regard to authority, both in those who exercise it and in those subject to it fail to see it in terms of a relationship.  Those who exercise it have the opportunity to share in the attributes of God’s providence - His loving concern for us His human children, and those subject to authority have an opportunity to acknowledge and be grateful for the ones who are willing to assume the serious responsibility of sharing God’s very own authority.  It is something like the relationship God wants us to see between the rich and the poor:  St. Paul says somewhere that the rich are to be grateful they have the means to imitate God’s generosity by giving to the poor, and the poor have the opportunity to thank God for using their fellow human beings as the instruments of His wise and loving Providence.

 

Now we will begin to consider briefly the remaining commandments, the fifth to the tenth, inclusive.  All of them have to do more directly with interpersonal relationships and indirectly with the individual’s relationship to God and the human community.  The first four deal directly with our relationship to God and the human community and indirectly with interpersonal relationships.  The existence of others represent limitations on the exercise of autonomy and self-determination.  The dignity of the human person is such that I am not permitted to make choices and otherwise conduct myself in ways that injure other persons.  The injury, of course, that we might inflict is most often other than physical injury.  Most often they are injuries to a person’s status in the community or to a person considered in terms of his relationships.  We should not think of those limitations as something deplorable.  God Himself has imposed a limitation upon Himself by creating us free creatures.  By observing that limitation - namely - by never doing violence to our free will, He is being True to Himself.  He is being faithful and reliable.  Every time we make a choice that is an exercise of self-determination, we lesson the number of options open to us.  Every time other people make choices that lessen the number of further options open to them, the number of my options relative to that person are lessened also.  These next six commandments, in effect, have to do with fidelity to the self-determining choices we have made and those others have made.  An example: My taking solemn vows in the Order of Carmel limits the kinds of relationships I may enter into with others, and limits the kinds of relationships others can enter into with me.

 

But to move forward: the fifth commandment is: You shall not kill”.   As pointed out before, this would not have to be a commandment had not original sin blinded us to the dignity of human life and inclined individuals to take the lives of others who are deemed a serious threat to one’s personal bodily life.  We tend to forget that God commanded Adam and Eve: Increase and multiply; fill the earth (with human life) and subdue the earth”.  Human life is part of our stewardship.  To see human life in others as evil and or something to be stamped out is a most grievous offense against God, its creator.  As creator, God alone has the right to determine when and how human life should end.

 

As Christians we should be utterly horrified by any taking of human life.  I was going to say “even” the life of depraved murderers.  I have to say, we should “especially” be horrified by imposing the death penalty upon such criminals, because we have to be concerned about their souls.  The longer they live on earth the longer the grace of God is able to work on them.  Perhaps, by the end of a long life they might repent and be saved.  To put them to death while hardened in sin is tantamount to sending them to hell.  No one who loves Jesus wants anyone to go to Hell.  Jesus died for the hardened criminal, the serial killer, and the rapist/murderer as much as for me.  We have to want them to live in the hope that they will respond to God’s grace in time to save their souls.  Imagine how much joy that brings to the angels and saints in Heaven, indeed, to the Hearts of Jesus and Mary, too.  Of course, the right to life also includes the right to good health.  The state of our souls is linked to the state of our bodily health.  A sound mind in a sound body” is a famous saying - a worthwhile goal to pursue.  We need life and good health to do God’s work on earth, and so do others.  The fifth commandment therefore forbids that we injure even the health of another.  But again, when God in His wise and loving Providence does allow illness and injury, His permissive will, we have to accept it gratefully and help others to do so as well.  But we must try to restore health and maintain health by reasonable means.  Only when they fail can we ascribe it to God’s providence.

 

The “doing falsehood” by doing violence to human life is that it reckons the human person to be no more than a thing.  It is to say that, like a thing, a person is not a repository of rights I am obliged to respect.  We can own things, we cannot own persons.

 

What a terrible thing it is, therefore, that our society allows violence against human life to be depicted in books, newspapers, movies and television.  We have to pray and suffer in the hopes of obtaining God’s grace to turn this aspect of society completely around. 

 

The sixth commandment reads: Thou shalt not commit adultery.  When we spoke of the fifth commandment we did so in the light of the command of God that we “fill the earth” with human life.  This commandment even more clearly then pertains to our “stewardship” of human life.

 

There are many lies and errors prevalent in regard to human love, and one of the things that fallen nature causes us to become blind to is the fact that everything that pertains to the origin and development of human life shares in the sacredness of that human life.  The biggest lie of all is that God created sex to be an instrument of personal sensual pleasure and nothing else.  As part of that lie is the notion that marriage and human love can be totally divorced from “open-ness to life.”

 

Fallen human nature causes us to be blind to the fact that the sacredness of the lives of our infants and children demands that marriages be indissoluble and that families remain stable.  We fail to see that the sacrifices required, the dedication demanded of those charged with the up-bringing of their children are such that if God had not attached keen enjoyment of body and soul, sense and spirit to marital love, how many would be able to persevere as devoted spouses and parents?  In any event, it is in regard to marriage and family life - the province of the sixth commandment - that we see how self-determining choices always diminish the options open to those making them.  Once the choice to be a spouse and a parent is made by embracing the sacrament of marriage, a Catholic spouse’s options are severely diminished.  There can only be those which include spouse and children, or at least are options that lead to the development and perfection of his/her relationship to spouse and children, as spouse, mother or father.

 

We have already mentioned that the physical and spiritual joys God has attached to sexual love is one of the elements that entices people to embrace a vocation that requires so much sacrifice and self-denial.  One of the spiritual joys is the element of “exclusivity” in marital love.  There is something about us that enables us to find extraordinary joy in making of ourselves an exclusive and total gift to another, and in receiving a similar gift from another.  It is only the sacrament of marriage that makes that possible, so that even if in God’s will, loving providence, no children were to issue from the marriage, it still remains something very sacred, a powerful means to human sanctity. 

 

I should have included the ninth commandment when I read the sixth commandment because they are obviously related.  Apparently fallen human nature is so blinded by the rebellious sense appetite in the area of sexual love that we tend to overlook the fact that thoughts, desires, conversations that injure and demean human sexual love and marriage are themselves grievously sinful.  Thus God had to give us a separate commandment to cover this matter.  Fallen human nature also blinds us to the fact that if we become comfortable and matter-of-fact in thinking about, talking about, looking at and desiring sinful conduct, very soon we will become comfortable and matter-of-fact in committing those sinful deeds.  If the scandal of violence portrayed in the media is so very deplorable, the scandal of pervasive, illicit and perverse sex portrayed in our media is hundreds of times more to be deplored.  May God have mercy on us all.  (Heroes and heroines are usually involved in illicit love affairs.) 

 

I’ll quote the seventh and tenth commandments together: Thou shalt not steal, and thou shalt not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor.

 

Earlier in this conference we had said that fallen human nature blinds us to the fact that persons cannot be treated like things.  It is no wonder then that we also tend to be blinded to the fact that external goods are a kind of extension of the person.  The things that belong to a person have no rights, obviously, but the person they belong to has certain rights over them, which must be respected.  All of us need to have external goods that belong to us for a variety of reasons: as a support for our physical life, which in turn is in the service of our life of grace.  We need resources in order to exercise stewardship, that is, to use things for the well being of others.  We need to have external goods to rely on for a sense of security.  If we don’t have a sense of security that our physical needs will be satisfied, we’ll never be able to have the peace of mind to attend to the needs of our souls.  In a sense, we need them, a certain amount at least, as a sign of God’s approval.  Jesus did say: “Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven, and all else will be given you besides.”

 

Having said that, we wonder, where does voluntary poverty fit in?  Doesn’t what I have said indicate that God doesn’t want us to have “nothing”?  That is, to own nothing?  It seems to me that the voluntary poverty that is embraced by vow in religious life is possible only within an institutional setting.  In fact, the institutional setting is the fulfillment of the promise Jesus made to all who give up everything in this world, i.e., give up ownership, etc.: they will receive a hundred fold even in this life, and Heaven besides.

 

What are the lies we tend to embrace in regard to material goods?  One would be that goods (wealth) is a god: it delivers us from restrictions and limitations (as we pointed out in the first conference).  Another is that goods bestow value and dignity upon the owner.  This is the total reverse of what we said a few minutes ago, it is the dignity of the human owner, which gives dignity and value to what belongs to him.

 

Finally now, the eighth commandment: Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor.  This commandment embraces more than just telling lies about our neighbor (about another) it also includes a prohibition against telling lies to another.  All lies are against our neighbor either way, because either way, he is injured.

 

 

We know that we don’t like to be told lies, but we seldom advert to the reason why.  It is because truth is to the mind and heart what light is to the eye of the body.  Feeding falsehood to the intellect of another is like putting stumbling blocks in the path of a blind person.  Our minds were created to apprehend “reality”, “good” under the aspect of truth.  When we embrace “truth” or know the truth, we in some way embrace God, the author of reality, He who is supreme Good.  Surely that is why repentance is so pleasing to God.  If we embrace the truth that we are sinners, that certain things we have done have offended Him, and that in truth we are truly sorry for having done so, then we have indeed embraced Him and been restored to His friendship.

 

The importance of truth in the life of a person is further illustrated by the fact that the will is blind and has to be told by the intellect where “good” lies, so as to embrace it.  Truth and good have to be discerned or it is impossible to be a person, to make those self-determining autonomous choices that perfect us as human beings.

 

Truth is so necessary that even in those instances when one embraces falsehood thinking it is true, damage has been done.  No guilt is there, but there is a restlessness, a “dis-ease.” 

 

There are so many lies and errors prevalent in these times.  We mentioned some of them already.  But the greatest lie of all is that we don’t need an authority to tell us what is right and wrong, that the individual himself is the ultimate decider.  The lie is that the Ten Commandments are irrelevant, and even worse, harmful.

 

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Up to this point we have been treating of the Ten Commandments as a set of instructions that enable us to stop doing “false-hood”, to cease living lies in our interpersonal relationships.  We have said that the commandments directly oppose the “natural” inclinations of fallen, wounded human nature.

 

A question arises: What if we did not have the commandments to deter us from giving in to those tendencies all the time?  Or better, what happens to those people who ignore the Ten Commandments?  What happens is that habits are formed.  Evil tendencies become entrenched and vices, the seven capital sins and all their related sins take over completely.  Then everything a person does, desires, thinks is contrary to one’s personal dignity as a human being made in the image and likeness of God, and contrary to the dignity of every other human being with whom such a person has to deal with.  “Disorder” becomes a way of life.  Reason loses control entirely, the vicious person always chooses “what is not” over “what is”, and the image of God is utterly destroyed.

 

Some further questions: What is the long-term effect of keeping the commandments?  What is its effect upon fallen human nature?  Does keeping the commandments suffice to overcome and root out the tendencies to do lies and replace them with a natural tendency to do the truth?  The answers to these questions are: Long term effect?  (1). A purification of the soul, (2) removal of blindness of the inner eye.  (3) Are evil tendencies rooted out and replaced by good ones?  Just the rooting out part.  The effect can be compared to the Israelites in the desert after having been freed from slavery in Egypt.  No longer subject to Pharaoh, still not yet entered upon the Promised Land.  Keeping the commandments frees us from the tyranny of sin, but still does not introduce into the Promised Land of holiness.  Therefore, something else is needed to restore our human nature to its original integrity prior to the fall.  There is need of a new set of tendencies and inclinations, a set that are good and totally in accord with our dignity as God’s children by adoption.  What we need are the moral virtues.  The moral virtues become our “second nature”.  It is by means of the virtues that order is restored to the soul.  Whereas before the sense appetites wielded a disproportionate influence upon the intellect and will, now, because of the virtues, they yield to the control of reason and they do not block out the more subdued and less intense appeal or attraction of spiritual goods that give pleasure to the higher part of the soul.  Because the unruly sense appetites of fallen nature are in opposition to the commandments, they are mortified and nullified by keeping the commandments, until eventually they no longer blind the intellect to authentic good, and the intellect, further, can begin to value goods of the spirit more than the goods of sense, or material good.  Therefore, the keeping of the commandments faithfully is really what we call the Purgative Way. 

 

The three stages of the spiritual journey have been designated the Purgative, Illuminative and the Unitive Way.  In a sense, all three stages are concurrent to some extent, but the Purgative way has been substantially completed once the soul has been freed from serious sin.  Insofar as one will never be completely free of venial sins and imperfections while we are in the illuminative way, there is still some purging or purification to be accomplished.  And even were we to reach the Unitive way, there would still remain indeliberate venial sins and deliberate imperfections that would need to be purged.

 

 

In any event, once the soul has embarked upon a serious effort to acquire all the moral virtues, it has entered the Illuminative way.  The reason it is called illuminative is obviously because the mind is enlightened.  During this state it begins to see and understand the relationship between the way we conduct ourselves in relationship to God and our fellow human beings and our eternal happiness.  During this stage Wisdom is acquired.  Wisdom is the knowledge of all things in their deepest relationships.  Through the effort of acquiring the virtues the soul obtains the ability to assess all things and all conduct in terms of whether they hinder or promote progress on the road to holiness and whether they hinder or promote growth toward fullness of charity.

 

What then, are the virtues?  As you either know already or have guessed, the virtues are the opposite of vices.  Or rather, like vices, they are habits, but good habits.  Habits, as you know, are instinctive, spontaneous responses to the perceptions we experience in daily life.  Habits are ingrained tendencies that cause us to react in a certain way, the same way, to a specific perception or experience.  A good example is the habit of biting one’s nails when one is nervous or anxious.  Habits become “second nature” because we can become completely unaware that we are acting according to habit.  In a sense, we are “on automatic” when a “habitual” response takes over.  Virtues, then, are “good habits.”  When they are fully acquired they cause us to be “good” “automatically” all the time.  They free us from the necessity of having to “figure out” what conduct is called for in given situations in order to grow in the life of grace.  God created us to be creatures of habit because He knew that we don’t always have time to stop and evaluate a situation in all its aspects before acting.  We most often have to respond in the twinkling of an eye.  Thus, by means of the virtues we “pre-program” ourselves to do what is right, good and pleasing to God in every situation.

 

To help us appreciate what the virtues do for us, we can meditate briefly upon the psychological impact they have upon our lives.  It seems to me that they help us (when fully acquired) to taste a tiny bit of the blessedness enjoyed by God.  As you know, God, being Goodness itself, the Supreme Goodness, never has to worry about whether what He proposes to do is right or wrong. The very fact that He desires it makes that a good desire.  The very fact that He acts makes of that act a good and holy act.  He experiences no restraints.  He cannot do evil because He is supreme goodness, love, truth and holiness.  At least a part of His Blessedness lies in knowing that whatever He does is the absolute best and holiest way of doing.

 

So when a human being has acquired all the virtues to the highest possible degree, that person, also, knows that he or she need not worry about what he or she does, thinks, says, desires.  That person knows that he or she is programmed to do good in any and all situations, to do God’s will, and do the charitable thing every time one acts.  All sense of restraint falls away.  Such a soul experiences total and utter freedom - thus it tastes a tiny bit of the blessedness that belongs to God.

 

Now we have to ask: How are the moral virtues acquired?  Part of the answer is easy: the same way any habit is acquired, by doing the same thing over and over again.  The difficult part is knowing just what actions specifically must be repeated over and over again.  That is because, although by keeping the commandments we know we are excluding the conduct that is evil, we still need to know what the response is that is good and pleasing in the sight of God.  Therefore, we have to begin by following the example and teaching of those we know to be holy.  We spoke just now of the Blessedness of God.  We do indeed want to imitate God, but He is a pure spirit.  Thus we have to imitate and be guided by the teaching of Jesus Himself.  As He Himself says, whoever sees Me - [that is, observes and meditates upon My conduct, meditates upon and puts My teaching into practice]- sees the Father.  So we begin to acquire the virtues when we begin to do all that Jesus instructs us to do in the Gospels, particularly what He says in the Sermon on the Mount.  But we also need to pattern our conduct upon Jesus’ conduct.  That is why St. John of the Cross tells us in Chapter 13 of Book I of the Ascent of Mount Carmel: Have an habitual desire to imitate Jesus in all things.  To do that you must know Him.  Therefore, study and meditate upon His life in the Gospels so that you may come to know how it is He would act in all things.

 

I said above that we must imitate and learn from Holy people.  Jesus is the one model all holy men and woman have followed.  Still, because the saints and people known to be holy because the Church has declared them to be saints or blesseds are often closer to us in time and to our particular cultural milieu, we can very profitably learn from them what the virtuous conduct is in our particular situation.  Surely that is why our Holy Mother St. Teresa was led to say: “These are not times for believing everyone.  Believe only those you see modeling their lives after Christ”.  Those words are much, much more applicable and urgent in these, our own times.

 

Still, let us suppose that I have learned, from observing Jesus, the Blessed Virgin, our Carmelite saints and other saints, what it is I must do to exercise, that is, carry out, what a particular virtue would incline me to do sweetly and powerfully, yet I find that my nature shrinks from that response because it is difficult or distasteful.  (Remember, we have supposed that the tendency to evil is gone, but that the tendency to do good has not yet replaced it.)  What am I to do?  Well, we just have to “force” ourselves to follow the example or carry out the teaching.  It is something like going to take a shower because we really need a shower, yet there is no hot water, the water heater is out of commission.  I will not omit the shower, because that would be like following a sinful tendency and breaking one of the commandments.  Still I must honestly admit that I dread the contact with cold water, even though I know it is the right thing to do in the circumstances.  So I summon up all my courage and I plunge into the cold shower.  That is how it is upon first entering the illuminative way.  It requires great courage.

 

From what I have just said, it becomes evident why self-denial and corporal mortifications are so necessary on our spiritual journey.  In the Purgative Way, the violence we do to ourselves in avoiding serious sin is itself adequate self-denial and corporal mortification.  But in the Illuminative Way they are absolutely necessary to help us gain the mastery over our lower nature, even over our ego, the mastery that provides the courage we need to overcome the resistance we may experience when trying to imitate the example of Jesus.  Of course, as a person begins to get further along the Illuminative Way, the reluctance tends to decrease for a particular aspect of our imitation of Him, that is with regard to a particular virtue.  However, as we undertake to imitate Him in a more noble or fundamental virtue - such as turning the other cheek - we find the reluctance to be as strong as ever.  So self-denial and corporal mortification is always necessary.  Even in the Unitive way, where one begins to participate in the highest degrees of Divine Love, Divine Charity, self-denial and corporal mortification are still valued by the soul, but in that stage more as “penance: offered for sinners and to earn graces for those still struggling to get through the Purgative Way and into the Illuminative Way.

 

But there is also a deeper more fundamental source of the courage to overcome the reluctance our human nature (our sense appetites and our ego) experience at the prospect of imitating Jesus - we can say: at the prospect of taking up one’s cross and following Him - it is the same source that gives us the courage to practice self-denial and corporal mortification.  That source is love.  Love for Jesus; love for God the Father.  That source is the Spirit of Love, all of us know by experience that if we truly love something or someone we have no trouble overcoming obstacles that stand in the way of being near that person or obtaining that thing.  Or rather, despite the trouble and effort required to overcome the obstacles, we persist until we have conquered.  The same is true in regard to imitating Jesus and thus in acquiring His Virtues.  If we love Him enough, no reluctance, no repugnance is insurmountable.

 

Thus we see another reason why we must meditate upon the life of Jesus in the Gospels.  We need to do so in order to properly appreciate how much Jesus loves us.  Thus we particularly need to meditate upon His Passion, beginning in the Garden and ending with His death on the cross.  If we are normal, that is, not depraved, human beings, we cannot help but love in return those who have loved us with a “disinterested” love.  That is, love us for our own sake, rather than what we can do for another and give to another.  The more we love Jesus the greater strength we discover we can draw on to follow Him and imitate Him wherever He goes, in whatever He does.

 

Thus we see also the relationship between meditation on the Passion of Jesus and the Theological Virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity.  When we begin to appreciate how much Jesus, and the Eternal Father, who delivered Him up for our sake, love us, we begin to realize that in no way would they want to deceive us, and so we can believe more tenaciously and cling firmly to the basic truths they have revealed, even going back to the first book of the Bible, Genesis.  Thus our Faith is strengthened.  Similarly we can rely more strongly on that love which has given us the sacraments, especially the Eucharist, and the Beatitudes and the Evangelical Counsels as means of guaranteeing our salvation, and so our Hope is strengthened.  And of course, when we begin to fathom the extent of Jesus’ self-less love for us we begin to see that the only adequate way to say “thanks” is to surrender ourselves completely to Him as He surrendered Himself completely for us, and to us, in the Eucharist.  It is then that our Charity reaches its limit, too!!

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