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03/22/2005 20:55 -0500 GMT
Immigration Rant
Peace.
After over four years of struggle, we've finally gotten out daughter here
from Zambia. Estelle Mumbi Chisha, 15 years old and as sweet and beautiful
as her mother, arrived on Saturday March 12th at Birmingham International
Airport. It's the first time the airport has really held a tinge of its
middle name - international. I've dreamed of seeing Estelle walking down the
terminal toward me, and it was a great pleasure to watch that dream unravel
in real life.
I felt a peace and calm upon her arrival, and since. By definition, it
hasn't been a spastic feeling, but simple, calm and purely wonderful. At
long last...
The trials we've endured to get her here would make a small novel, so I
won't go into the details too much.
A long time ago, in a galaxy far far away, Maggie applied for and got a
visitor visa to join me in the United States. In our naïveté,
we thought that was how things worked. Maggie spent three months testing the
waters of being with me in the US, and it was palatable. She left for home,
and we were miserable without one another. As soon as the sugar bowl was
filled with enough duckets for her to return, she did. We married about 6
months after that.
Not too long after that, we were back in Zambia, and we thought that we
could simply demonstrate that we were married, that Estelle was Maggie's
child, that we had a house and the means to support Estelle, that we had a
school ready and able to enroll Estelle, and that would be that. We were
denied a visa for her.
Wow, that was an eye opening experience.
Maybe it was
the fact that we brought four of the Mumbis with us to the embassy. It was
such a disappointing experience. It was made worse by the fact that we
visited the embassy immediately after arriving in Zambia, so we were left
with a few weeks of knowing that we would have to part ways with Estelle
again.
Thank God for telephone and email, which kept our link to Estelle as strong
as possible from 8,500 miles away. We bided our time, hired our attorney
that was handling Maggie's change of status (to permanent resident), and
hoped for less than a year before Estelle would come. One year turned into
two, then three, and then four.
We were able to get back to Zambia once or twice in the interim, and each
time either one or both of us had to explain to young Estelle why we
couldn't let her join us. The US government wouldn't allow it. What a shame
on the American immigration system - and worse, it is a shameful
characteristic that the
American immigration system is perfectly content to leave unchanged.
About halfway through, this immigration process turned into a battle.
Maggie's parents went to the US embassy to apply for visitor visas to come
to Birmingham. They had Estelle and Emma with them. Without an interview,
the US consular officer Ms. Leslie Livingood denied all of their visitor
visa applications, and said to 68 year old Boniface Mumbi, "All you people
want to do is bring children to the United States to sell them." That is our
government in action. I wrote a scathing letter to my state senators, and to
the assistant secretary of state in charge of African Affairs. Among my
points was this: in all of this attention to fighting terrorism, our own
consular officer, the first and sometimes only representative that Zambians
see, insulted elder Zambians, and treated them with utter disrespect and
disregard for human dignity. If our government truly wanted to combat
terrorism, an assertion I call into doubt, then they should look at US
government employees like Leslie LIvingood to see why resentment and hatred
of America exists. This was before the atrocious abuses of our troops in
Iraq, but it bears the same scarlet badge of dishonor.
The Assistant Secretary wrote back to say that Estelle's case was proceeding
appropriately, and that was that.
What bullshit.
Continually when we checked on the status of Estelle's application, the time
that was anticipated before her case would be considered was 999 days. That
was because the data field couldn't accommodate 4 digits. Think about that.
Three years to wait for one's daughter to be able to come to be with her
nuclear family. Isn't that ridiculous? The kicker was this: we checked and the
wait would be 999 days. We waited a year, checking periodically, and the
wait was still listed as 999 days. How do you explain this to a child? How
do you suffer through? How do you accelerate a government process that is so
mired in bureaucracy that it is nearly at a standstill? Ugh - it just about
makes me sick to think about it, and it makes me ashamed of America - the
land of the Free...
At the same time that we were struggling through, living our lives without
our daughter, we were also enduring the worst kinds of bureaucratic nonsense
with regard to Maggie's permanent residency status. Shortly after we were
married, she applied for permanent residency. There are some requirements of
an individual who want to have some freedoms in the US. For example, each
year until permanent residency is granted, one must reapply for an
employment permit and a renewed "advance parole" document, which permits
Maggie in this case to come and go as she pleases between the US and Zambia.
Each year we were told that permanent residency would be granted, and
each year we were disappointed, and forced to reapply using considerable
resources for new work permits and travel documents. We had the green card
interview, and were told it should be a matter of weeks. Two years later, we
still didn't have a "green card," which denotes permanent residency. Maggie's
file was lost on more than one occasion. Telephone calls to the officer in
charge of Maggie's case were not returned for months. Five letters
over the course of the last year demanded action on the case, to no avail.
Here is an example of the string of disappointments we endured at the hands of
US immigration.
Our demands for a judgment on Maggie's permanent residency were finally
coming to a head. There is some law or rule that says that if you've gone
too long waiting, you can show up in person, and they must make a judgment
then and there, that day. So we planned to do that. We called and our
attorney personally visited to ensure our file was there, in Atlanta.
Birmingham is 150 miles from Atlanta. Maggie and I took time off from work,
leaving at 3 in the morning to arrive before 6 am. We stood in the rain
waiting, and gained entrance to the federal building. We stood on line
again, once inside, for over an hour, to justify our visit, and to get a
number. We sat in a room with others hopeful to immigrate or change their
status. We did not dare leave to urinate or eat, for fear of missing our
name being called. After 5 hours, we were called, and told that we were
called 4 hours earlier, but that we didn't answer...unbelievable,
unconscionable, and just damn dead wrong. Add to that this: They couldn't
find the file, and so we would have to call or come back tomorrow. You can
imagine the depth of despair that this sort of thing can visit on a soul.
Even our hardened attorney, immune to the slowest machinations of our
government, was beside herself with their ineptitude.
The worst of all this is that there is no recourse. You can complain to the
highest levels, and no corrective action takes place. Essentially, you have
to bend over and take it, for lack of a better analogy, and get abused by
the government that is meant to serve us, that we pay for to help us in
areas of need.
Now, when all is settled, and Maggie finally has her green card, which isn't
green, by the way, and Estelle is sleeping upstairs peacefully, it is easy
to forget the injustices of the US immigration system. I had not meant for
this particular writing to be such a rant against immigration, but I think
it is important to remember the struggle. It is also important to remember
that our government is inefficient and untimely with regard to legitimate
immigration. We had opportunities to purchase a black market visa for
Estelle and a black market green card for Maggie, but we chose to go about
it the right way. My point is that I do not want to the US immigration
procedures to win. I do not want their transgressions and inadequacies to be
forgotten. I want people to know how wrong our government is in cases like
ours, so that these errors can be corrected for future immigrants.
Today, it is easy to live in the peace of being together, whole and legally
unchallenged, but the prices that we had to pay for that peace should not
be forgotten.