A Little Metaphor To Further Your Understanding

Once, I asked a Master of Persuasion if he could give me a better understanding of how to influence women. He told me the following story:

"When I set out to influence a woman, I like to think of myself as a fisherman. Everything I do, every action I take is organized around landing that fish.

Now, I'll dangle the bait in the water, and then I'll watch to see what the fish does. And the fish will come up and smell the bait, and put it's mouth around the bait. And I'm watching to see what part of the bait the fish likes.

Now, right here is where most people make their mistake. You see, as soon as the fish bites down they start reeling in that line like crazy. But I never do that, because I consider that I only have a 10 pound fishing line to catch a 150 pound fish. So if the fish feels me pulling on the line, it's going to pull back and that line will S-N-A-P and no fish for me.

So what I do is stay right in front of that fish, and what I do is I start reeling myself to the fish. So as I walk up on that fish the fish doesn't feel any tug or pull on the line so it doesn't resist me. And it just seems natural to it as I get closer and closer to it. And the closer I get to it, the stronger my line is and the smaller the fish gets. Till by the time I'm right up to that fish with my net, I've got a 500 pound line for a 10 pound fish. And the fish feels so natural that it
just eliminates it's own resistance and thinks, "Hey this is right. This is natural. It's natural to jump in the boat, get skinned, gutted, fried up and eaten!"

Now, wasn't that a nice story? I want you to think well on it, because I don't want you to go making the same dumb mistakes I made when I was first learning Speed Seduction.

Let me explain a bit. You see, when I first started out, I was so excited by the fact that I could get very hot-looking women sexually excited and turned on in just a few minutes time, that I went right for the jugular every time out.

So, was I successful in getting these women hot and bothered? You bet. But did I get laid doing it? USUALLY NOT!!! Because I came on strong, without softening them up first that ...

I ONLY SUCCEEDED IN SCARING THEM OFF!!!!

That's right. Yes, If you first do the sexual pattern I'll teach you, a woman will very likely get nicely hot and bothered. But unless she is already a highly sexual person who will fuck you at the drop of a hat, or she knows you quite well already, getting her aroused and turned on to you right off the bat is just going to scare her. She's just going to think... "God, I'm reallt getting hot, but I shouldnt be feeling this way. I dont even know this guy!!".

In other words, you're gonna tug the line so hard, it's going to S-N-A-P and your fish is going to swim away.

Remember, as you use the patterns I'm going to show you, there are considerations you have to keep in mind, like how well you already know the woman and what kind of bond you've already built with her; to what degree she already is a highly sexual person; and finally if she has any major trust/control issues.

Therefore, it's usually extremely important to first use the techniques I'll show you that create states of intense emotional connection, as if she's known you her whole life, before moving on to the sexual arousal stuff. When you create that kind of connection (you can do it in about 7 minutes using what I'll show you), you often don't even have to do the sexual stuff, since for most women that kind of connection is what sex is all about anyway. (Guys are different ... sometimes I think we just want to dump loads?)

METAPHOR #2

Patty Cake, Patty Cake, Baker's Man: Another Metaphor To Help You Understand

One useful way to think about Speed Seduction is to consider the process of baking a cake. First, before you even get out the recipe, you have to WANT to bake the cake. You have to BELIEVE you can bake the cake. Then, most importantly, you have to get off your rear and ...

GET BAKING, BUDDY!!!

The various patterns I'm going to be sharing with you throughout this course can be considered to be recipes. In order to use a recipe correctly you not only have to make sure you have the right ingredients, but you also have to make sure ...

YOU USE THEM IN THE RIGHT ORDER OR SEQUENCE!!

As an example, you don't whip up the cake mix, stick it in the oven at 450 degrees for thirty minutes, and then, when you're done, beat in the egg!!
The same holds true for the various patterns I'm going to show you. You have to do them in the right sequence. The following sequence is the formula to get virtually any woman you want to be madly, passionately in love with you. It's what runs almost every pattern I'll teach you.

1. Get her attention
2. Establish states of her feeling an incredible bond and connection to you
3. Create states of horniness, arousal, attraction
4. Amplify those states, and link them to you

Now, don't wince at all this. Some of these patterns are only three or four sentences long, and don't take more than 5 minutes to do!! The reason I'm taking such pains to explain is I want you to understand how what you're doing works, so you can improve upon it and come up with stuff even better!!

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